what i say when you want to quit
I was not an athletic kid in high school.
I faked stomach aches every time church camp had a sports activity. I took PE online TWICE (because I failed the first time).
My relationship with physical activity was, at best, avoidance.
At worst, it was humiliating.
Then, the plot twist embedded in everyone's story: 2020.
That year, I was living alone in a tiny house, single as hell, building up my OBM business, and newly sober.
My work was done by 11 am everyday because turns out I naturally wake up at 4am when no one is around to keep me up past 8pm.
I had never had so much free time before 🙃
I started doing HIIT workouts on Youtube and started to feel..... kind of buff???
And when I wasn't dipping my toe into working out, 😲
I was watching endless videos of athletic girls gliding around on skates looking joyful and free and I thought: maybe I COULD be someone who identifies as "athletic"!
So I bought some Moxies and started practicing roller skating every single day.
Going forward didn't take too long to master (thanks to my time in middle school spent at Generations Roller Rink).
It was skating backwards that perplexed me.
SO
I started watching tutorials online and waddled backwards on my skates like a baby duck every day for a week.
I felt really stupid.
I didn't understand how to get from HERE(clueless) to THERE(skating queen).
It felt impossible but I had nothing else to do besides work and walk around my neighborhood, so.
And then one day that started as just another hopeless day waddling backwards on wheels: it clicked.
Just like that. It was like a switch flipped.
Everything I had been practicing just kind of came together.
Now I actually feel MORE comfortable skating backwards than forwards.
It's easier to stop, it flows better, it feels incredible!
I see this exact arc play out with my clients every single time I introduce a new system.
This is how it usually goes:
1️⃣ About three weeks into the build, I present the first system.
New tool, new habits, new way of doing things. They're excited.
2️⃣ They leave our call and start their homework.
3️⃣ We get on our next call and they have that look of embarrassment - like they have been waddling backwards on skates a little too long.
"I'm really struggling" they say. "How can I get from clueless to SYSTEMS QUEEN?"
And I say: "You are EXACTLY where you are supposed to be. This is the hardest part right before everything clicks."
The click is coming. It always comes.
And it only comes if you push through the part that feels like waddling for a wee bit.
The problem is that life is busy and hard things are easy to put off.
Which is exactly why having a container matters.
My clients stay focused on learning their systems because they've committed to working with me, and my container only lasts 6 months.
And unlike my pandemic days alone, my clients have me holding their hands as they skate backwards into the unknown that is their ✨new systems✨ (not just a Youtube tutorial).
Tired of trying to make the SYSTEMS in your business work on your own?
Here's what working with me looks like in my 6 month container:
1️⃣ I audit how your offer runs from sales to offboarding.
2️⃣ I find every gap and every area of improvement.
3️⃣ I build the entire operating layer around it: processes, tools, automations, SOPs: all of it documented, all of it trained into your team before I exit.
4️⃣ By the time we're done, your team runs it. You stop being the bottleneck.
I'm taking 3 beta clients right now at $2,500/month for 6 months.
Price goes to $3,500/month after beta closes.